Ok. That happens…
I want to explain the necessary changes of diagram prior to answer your questions:
Due to the fact, we have no switching box which contains live potential AND wire to the bulb, we have to use this diagram:
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At switch 1 position, Shelly 1L has to be installed. Wire to the bulb must be connected to terminal L of Shelly because we have no spare wire to the switches to use Sx-SW switching. Thus, both switches must switch with potential at terminal O of Shelly.
Wiring of both switches has to be modified: One of the NO/NC contacts is left open, the NO contact is used only. With this measure, live potential is fed to switch 1 location.
The rest is straightforward as shown in the first sketch, but with two switches now.
To your questions:
(A) Sx terminal of Shelly 1L is at live potential, but should not have an extra connection to a live wire. Thus, switching with Sx is done with „dry“ contact from SW to Sx. The Shelly is activated by a very large current flowing out of pin SW to pin Sx, driven by approximately 3V DC, but at live potential!
(B) Shelly 1L is a bit exotic in the Shelly family: Whereas most other Shellies are activated by current flow from SW input to pin L, Shelly 1L can be activated by a current flowing either from SW to Sx (as described above) or from SW to O. Because in your application an O wire is not available at both positions of the switches, we must reverse the Shelly: power supply is via terminal O and switched wire is via terminal L. This is possible because the Shelly is a two-wire device. Load and power source may be interchanged.
Addendum: Don’t forget to install a bypass in parallel to the bulb if power rating of the bulb is less than 20W (IIRC)!
Addendum 2: I forgot the smart bulb - sorry! Thus, button type must be set to „detached“ instead of „toggle“ and power on default mode to „on“! Bypass is mandatory!